With the additional information that she's a woman, I'm reading this as a personal problem. If you could provide an email address that'd be cool, as my IP is banned. this was a private problem made public by an abuse.
The sig read "I like my women like I like my coffee, ground up and in the freezer." read it somewhere else and laughed. if that personally offends you then, to type like Bogie, I_am_sorry, not much offends me. Don't take life so seriously.