I totally blew the mind of my stepson at the time...
We all had the day off, and for no reason , out of the clear blue, we got in her car and took off. His mom knew how spontaneous I could be. We pulled over at a Mom&Pop Gas station and grabbed a load of bread, chips, sliced meat , juice, coffee and had a picnic for breakfast. Kid just knows I have gone bonkers.
We find a roadside flea market. He forgot his money, well it was a "toss some clothes on and last one to the car is a rotten egg..." Anywho we piddled, I pointed out how his mom had found some inexpensive dealie she liked and she did have a way with decorating. He bought the dealie for her. We just bought each other stuff for no reason...just piddlin'.
Now the boy is getting into this 'spontaneous' stuff for no reason, his mom really made over his gift. We continued by doing another another picnic for lunch, and at small town park, just talking, conversation, no troubles about work, school, nothing - just fun stuff.
Now the dog was pissed we fogot to take him. So the kid and I took him to the park, and let him have treats, chase squirrels and get petted by other kids.
"Mom, was this some kind of holiday?"
'No sweetie, just us being us'
"Can we do this Spontaneous Day again...like soon and not wait until next year?"
'Yep - in fact next time - you can choose it and the activities".
By Golly if the young man did not do just that. Made Egg sandwiches one morning and yelled at us to 'get up'- and said we were going to check out a Estate sale he heard about, and we wandered amongst the barn, sheds and finding piddley stuff to get.
HE...He even took Us out to eat Pizza Buffett at lunch with his own money! WE just knew the kid was sick. lol
At her folks , in the country, we had fun conservations, played games, or went out back to shoot. Now this can get a bit serious, shooting for the last piece of certain dessert.
I did not win...my target was a marble and a J frame revolver...my wife threw the marble as far as she could. Folded her arms and gave me a smug smile. 'Well - you gonna shoot or what?"
My stepson and his grandpa 'almost' won, their target was a golf ball and .22 rifle.
Wife and her mom won the dessert and split it. They kept 'bumping' grandpa/ dad while he shot.
And...wife and her mom had a tennis ball for their target at about 10 yds.
Stepson said his mom and grandma 'cheated' [ laughing as he said so] Grandma waved that carving knife , denied any such thing and one more such comment and he was going to clean up the kitchen.
Amazing what threats , and a carving knife will do to get a grandson to shut up and brown nose.
'Gee grandma, you really are a great rifle shot...'.
I just reminded the brat I had the car keys and it was long walk home. Bribery is good.
Her Dad later glued the puzzle we did and framed it. So naturally we started doing puzzles at get togethers for no special holiday reasons and he would glue and frame these...kid thought that was kinda neat. Grandpa gave him one for no special reason...you would have thought the granddad had given him a lot of money or something. First thing his mom and I had to do was hang it when we got home with it.
Corny and dumb, but it was different and ours.