A friend of mine has been married for roughly twenty years, and the marriage has always been great.
A couple of years ago he took a new job, and it's really affecting him. It consumes him.
Previously, they lived very frugally, and were very happy. He could easily go back to his old job.
Yesterday I was talking with his wife, and she started letting things out. They're both very religious, and she doesn't want to go so far as divorce...if possible.
He and I are friends, but we've never discussed anything intimate about our lives. I really hate to see the marriage going this way.
Should I talk to him, or just butt out?