http://www.zippo.com/Products/zippoMPL.aspx
never used it so i can't vouch for it, but it's long, butane, and refillable. and it's zippo. so if it breaks, send it in with $5 for return shipping and they will repair or replace it.
TMM
I've used on of those before, although not long term. Seemed like a nice lighter. Very pretty. Felt solid, but don't know if that would translate to durability or not.
Aside from the wunder-lighter (think it with a German accent, I don't know how to type umlauts), we usually just keep a few of the $2 cheapies around the house. Toss 'em when they fail, it's not going to break the bank.