Actually, we gave Japan
another chance to surrender between the 2 bombs. (Yes, hetting the "terminology" correct is important.
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And no, I don't think anyone was saying the America is/was as evil as any of the other nations mentioned. I understood the comment to be another example of the dissonance exhibited by the Japanese regarding the entire period of the Greater Asian Co-Prosperity Sphere and their adventures in securing raw materials, land mass, and social/diplomatic intercourse by other than traditional avenues.
And there are enough folks here in America that also have some serious difficulty accepting that in spite of the ability to bring the conflict to a quicker end with a lesser loss of life than had it been necessary to follow the more traditional avenue of invading the Home Islands, we were and continue to be on the side of goodness and right in the matter. Do you recall the flap a few years ago at the Smithsonian over how to caption exhibits relating to the atomic bombings?
stay safe.
skidmark