I'm afraid that the problems you mention as existing on THR are simply a reflection of society. Every day in court, I see people who seem to exhibit far less tolerance and yet, at the same time, demand that they be respected. The way I was raised, you judged people by what they do, not necessarily what their beliefs are. Jewish, Christian, Muslim, Pagan, I don't care. What I value, and respect, in people are probably the same things other APS members do. Honesty, integrity, respect given to others (in all ways). Real honor. the problem is that this seems to be a rare commodity these days. People don't earn respect, they think they are entitled to it. At the same time, they are "dissed", meaning they are offended by the least little thing, and think that they have a right to not be offended in that manner. Anything that is said which is different or contrary to their own views or opinions is immediately offensive and disrespectful, and since they are entitled to certain respect, any person speaking to the contrary is offensive. What can be done about it? Well, we can't make people grow thicker skin. And we cannot stop people from expressing their views, so long as they do so in proper ways. All that can really be done is to have someone play referee to stop things from getting out of control when the flames start burning, the verbal bullets are flying, and the innocent among us are ducking for cover. As for me, I enjoy a good debate (why else would I be a lawyer). At the same time, I'm trying my best to educate young people about real respect, real honor, and trying to lead by example. Not much else I can do.