"Every generation, Western civilization is invaded by barbarians; we call them 'children.'"
----Hannah Arendt
Because you link to youthrights.org un-ironically?
Maybe if you used the term "infant" instead of "children," you might have a point.
But I guess that IS the point.
Yep, trouble it is and bound for disappointment when reality does not conform to their expectations.
You people are either too literal or not literal enough.
Trying again.
Children are not indebted to their parents for their life or their raising.
You made them, you raise them, they are not obligated to pay you back (be it emotionally or finacially) for that.
And I think it is wrong to tell them so. If they choose to do so, it's because they want to. But it's up to them.
I never said you have to give them cool/nice things. You only have to meet the most basic obligations. I would hope you would do more, but that's up to you. I also don't think you should give them any damn cool/nice thing they like, either.
The daughter had some opinions about her parents. She expressed them. Regardless of there legitmacy, she had a right to do both (yes, children have rights) and he, as a person, had the right to retalate.
But his retaliation was not what I would consider to be good parenting, because he tromped all over his childs rights, which only teaches her that she doesn't have any.
You accuse me of infantilising, yet you support this dad for doing that very thing to his daughter?