Yeah, I never knew where the "common wisdom" (emphasis on the quotes) came about that .45ACP was something for the recoil-sensitive to avoid.
Unless it's one of those mini-micro deep concealment .45's, it's a bigger slower push, and not at all snappy, like .38's/.357's, 9mm, or .40 can be, depending on the load and gun combination used.
And the single stack magazine works really well for some people's hands.