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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #1 on: April 05, 2015, 11:11:13 AM »
So here's the thing:

I think bakeries should be free to pick their clients (or not) for whatever reason.  Genuinely held religious beliefs are the core of a persons psyche, and the idea that we are forcing people to question those needs some serious thought, as a society.

But.

The two things you are equating aren't equal.  Baking a cake for celebration, even of someone you despise is not the same as being asked (or hired) to participate in the defaming of someone.  The equivalent to this cake thing is if she were asked to bake a Koran cake with a couple of the verses talking about killing and enslaving nonbelievers.  Which I'm betting she wouldn't do either.

The other bakery being forced to make a wedding cake for a gay couple is likewise a different thing.  They are forced to provide the same product to gays and non gays.  This lady refused to provide a product to a christian that she also doesn't provide to anyone else.  So, on this one the courts are right.*

Of course this whole thing wouldn't be an issue if we actually believed in freedom of association.


*Assuming of course you accept the legitimacy of the courts being able to decide who you do and don't do business with.

ETA: changed terminology for fistful.
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #2 on: April 05, 2015, 11:17:44 AM »
Nope. They are equal.  Either you have a right of refusal of service or not.  Either you have the right of association (or disassociation) or you do not.
PERIOD.
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #3 on: April 05, 2015, 11:25:18 AM »
So here's the thing:

I think bakeries should be free to pick their clients (or not) for whatever reason.  Genuinely held religious beliefs are the core of a persons psyche, and the idea that we are forcing people to question those needs some serious thought, as a society.

But.

The two things you are equating aren't equal.  Baking a cake for celebration, even of someone you despise is not the same as being asked (or hired) to participate in the hating of someone.  The equivalent to this cake thing is if she were asked to bake a Koran cake with a couple of the verses talking about killing and enslaving nonbelievers.  Which I'm betting she wouldn't do either.

The other bakery being forced to make a wedding cake for a gay couple is likewise a different thing.  They are forced to provide the same product to gays and non gays.  This lady refused to provide a product to a christian that she also doesn't provide to anyone else.  So, on this one the courts are right.*

Of course this whole thing wouldn't be an issue if we actually believed in freedom of association.


*Assuming of course you accept the legitimacy of the courts being able to decide who you do and don't do business with.

and this is why the Republic was lost; even guys who are on our side regarding most things are completely lost on what is the nature of true liberty and individual rights.

Liberty is not compatible with the modern redefinition of egalitarianism.
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #4 on: April 05, 2015, 11:27:27 AM »
Nope. They are equal.  Either you have a right of refusal of service or not.  Either you have the right of association (or disassociation) or you do not.
PERIOD.


You don't. I thought that was clear to everyone by now.

That's why the Denver lady won in court. She wasn't claiming right of association, which business owners don't have. She was claiming that her business doesn't defame ANY group. She apparently had evidence that she doesn't.

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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #5 on: April 05, 2015, 11:29:18 AM »
Nope. They are equal.  Either you have a right of refusal of service or not.  Either you have the right of association (or disassociation) or you do not.
PERIOD.


We no longer have the right of association, it went away with natural rights and the rest of the republic.

We're living in the rotting carcass of the old Republic.
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #6 on: April 05, 2015, 11:30:11 AM »
and this is why the Republic was lost; even guys who are on our side regarding most things are completely lost on what is the nature of true liberty and individual rights.

Liberty is not compatible with the modern redefinition of egalitarianism.

I am not confused on the nature of liberty.  I am also not surprised when courts do not use a freedom that hasn't existed in my lifetime in rulings.  

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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #7 on: April 05, 2015, 11:35:20 AM »
We no longer have the right of association, it went away with natural rights and the rest of the republic.

We're living in the rotting carcass of the old Republic.

No argument there. My point was If we are going to fight in the culture wars, we need to do so based on the rights and privileges we actually have, not should have.

Denver Baker won her case because she proved that she treated all groups the same. The Christian Baker lost because she didn't. The difference  between supporting cakes and defaming cakes are what allowed that to happen. That's why the cases aren't equal, and conservatives that ddon't understand that distinction are why we keep losing battles.

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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #8 on: April 05, 2015, 11:38:00 AM »
So here's the thing:

I think bakeries should be free to pick their clients (or not) for whatever reason.  Genuinely held religious beliefs are the core of a persons psyche, and the idea that we are forcing people to question those needs some serious thought, as a society.

But.

The two things you are equating aren't equal. 


I didn't say those things (celebrating vs so-called hating) are equal. If you're going to be all rational and objective, would it be out of your way to give a brother the benefit of the doubt, at least?

What I equated are two bakers who didn't want to produce a good that had a purpose with which they disagreed.

And, since you are taking such pains to be objective, could you correct that bit about "hating of someone"? Expressing moral disagreement with someone's behavior certainly doesn't qualify as hatred. If there's something hateful about the customer's request, I haven't seen it. You'll notice he asked for the one of the cake's to say "God loves sinners."
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #9 on: April 05, 2015, 11:55:13 AM »
You can understand my confusion, you did use the word "equal"......

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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #10 on: April 05, 2015, 12:02:43 PM »
You can understand my confusion, you did use the word "equal"......

Which was correct. Ask for clarification, maybe.
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #11 on: April 05, 2015, 12:11:26 PM »



What I equated are two bakers who didn't want to produce a good that had a purpose with which they disagreed.



This right here.

The message is inconsequential.  Refusal to produce a service for someone you don't want to serve should be a simple right of a free people. 

Just further proof of the failings of the civil rights act, and of just how free we ain't.
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #12 on: April 05, 2015, 12:54:44 PM »
No, Jamis, it all makes sense. Moral beliefs against homosexual marriage get no protection from the law. The religion of Happycake gets all the protection it needs. You understand that, right?
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #13 on: April 05, 2015, 01:05:36 PM »
Truth. 
I do see a new opportunity for a niche business.  Hatecakes.  You want a KKK cake? No problem!  You want a "got hates fags" cake? No problem!
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #14 on: April 05, 2015, 02:34:31 PM »
No, Jamis, it all makes sense. Moral beliefs against homosexual marriage get no protection from the law. The religion of Happycake gets all the protection it needs. You understand that, right?

Ahh Christian Martyr Syndrome kicks in to 5th gear.

We don't yet live in a place where we actually have as much liberty as we'd like to tell ourselves.  If you run a business, you don't get freedom of association.

Make wedding cakes?  You gotta make them for pretty much everybody.

Make negative cakes?  Gotta make them for everybody.  Only Bakery #2 doesn't actually make them for anybody, so she's good.  The two situations are not the same because of the content of the request.  I know it makes folks feel all oppressed to conflate the two, but there are obvious differences between the two situations.

Unless you have evidence that Baker #2 has made cakes showing Christians (or anyone else) negatively,  this isn't a "Some animals are more Equal" moment, it's a "Content of the message matters in the real world" issue.

But keep pretending that this guy didn't get his cakes made because he was Christian if it makes you feel better.

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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #15 on: April 05, 2015, 02:45:38 PM »
So if hypothetically you wanted a gay wedding cake, why would you seek out a baker who did not want to sell you one and then sue them, rather than go someplace else that actually wanted you business?  (Would you eat anything cooked under duress by someone who disliked you or strongly disapproved of what you were doing?)  I'd be afraid of what disgusting "extras" I got with the cake.  It's like insulting the cook or waitress at a restaurant *before* you get your food.

If the baker is forced at gunpoint to bake the cake, and therefore participate in your so-called "wedding" that they find repugnant, how is that not slavery?  Or is it okay that we enslave people we disagree with because they are inhuman troglodytes?

AFAIK, the baker did not refuse to sell them a tray of cupcakes or a sheet cake; it was specifically a wedding cake.  Same thing with the photographer in a similar situation.  IMHO, the gay couple was not looking for a cake, they were looking for a fight.
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #16 on: April 05, 2015, 03:00:33 PM »
Ahh Christian Martyr Syndrome kicks in to 5th gear.

We don't yet live in a place where we actually have as much liberty as we'd like to tell ourselves.  If you run a business, you don't get freedom of association.

Make wedding cakes?  You gotta make them for pretty much everybody.

Make negative cakes?  Gotta make them for everybody.  Only Bakery #2 doesn't actually make them for anybody, so she's good.  The two situations are not the same because of the content of the request.  I know it makes folks feel all oppressed to conflate the two, but there are obvious differences between the two situations.

Unless you have evidence that Baker #2 has made cakes showing Christians (or anyone else) negatively,  this isn't a "Some animals are more Equal" moment, it's a "Content of the message matters in the real world" issue.

But keep pretending that this guy didn't get his cakes made because he was Christian if it makes you feel better.

Why do you want to keep pretending that I'm saying things I'm not saying? Does it make you feel special?
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #17 on: April 05, 2015, 03:03:32 PM »
  IMHO, the gay couple was not looking for a cake, they were looking for a fight.

IMHO you're 100% correct.  I think Fistful is as well. Or at least the dude that went into the bakery. The gay folks just picked one they could win, with the laws as they are currently written.

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So if hypothetically you wanted a gay wedding cake, why would you seek out a baker who did not want to sell you one and then sue them, rather than go someplace else that actually wanted you business?  (Would you eat anything cooked under duress by someone who disliked you or strongly disapproved of what you were doing?)  I'd be afraid of what disgusting "extras" I got with the cake.  It's like insulting the cook or waitress at a restaurant *before* you get your food.

There is much wisdom here.  =D

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If the baker is forced at gunpoint to bake the cake, and therefore participate in your so-called "wedding" that they find repugnant, how is that not slavery?

Well it's not slavery, because you don't own them.  They could legally say "*expletive deleted*ck it, and you!" close their bakery and not participate.  Not a great choice but not slavery.  Let's not call a hoe a spade. I will however 100% agree that it's bullshit.  You should be able to contract, or not with anyone for any reason.  If you don't want to bake a cake because the groom's tux is ugly, fine.  Or it's a mixed race couple, fine.  That is, unfortunately, only my opinion at the moment.  Our society has decided that some of the discrimination we had was so bad that we passed laws exchanging our freedom of association to stop discrimination.  In CO (where this all took place) it is codified in law that you can not discriminate based on sexual orientation.  If your business is supporting weddings, then you have to support gay weddings if contracted.  It sucks, but that's the current law.

If you want to talk about civil disobedience we can.  They could just say no and take the fine.  They could do any of the sit-inesque stuff that was done to get anti discrimination laws passed in the first place.  Every choice one makes has consequences.  Weight them and choose.  What you can't do is fight the battle in a court of law, and not expect the clear law to prevail. (well, you can but it's stupid.)

Similarly, you can't equate two different situations and smugly claim hypocrisy.  Well, again, you can but folks will call you out on it.

When you find a bakery that refuses to bake an Easter cake, because it's Christian, you can claim some animals are more equal.

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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #18 on: April 05, 2015, 03:07:40 PM »
Why do you want to keep pretending that I'm saying things I'm not saying? Does it make you feel special?

Perhaps you could clarify what you meant by "Some Animals are more equal then others"

From your past comments on this subject I took it to mean that Gay folks had forced a wedding cake to be made, and this dude (a Christian) just lost in court to have his christian themed cakes made.  So you were saying that gay folks were more equal then Christians in this story.

Was that not what your OP meant?


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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #19 on: April 05, 2015, 03:32:14 PM »
Let's not call a hoe a spade.

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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #20 on: April 05, 2015, 04:32:24 PM »
Nope. They are equal.  Either you have a right of refusal of service or not.  Either you have the right of association (or disassociation) or you do not.
PERIOD.

Pretty much this. 

In the current climate, such freedom of association is denied and business owners need to take steps to protect themselves and their beliefs.  Such as policies that include branding/inclusions likely to turn off those who would troll them and try to force them to work against their conscience.  Think Windows 95+Internet Explorer.  To uninstall IE you must pretty much must destroy the OS.  Or contractual provisions / EULAs onerous to those hostile to their beliefs.  Sure, we can be forced to bake anyone a cake, no matter our conscience.  But ALL cakes come with the following contractual provisions...

And I am not sure why different pricing scales could not be used.  Legitimate when done in say, dry cleaning of men's & women's clothing.  Gay/KKK Cakes cost 2x non-gay/non-KKK cakes with the difference being donated to conversion therapy charity / NAACP.

Gotta get creative when dealing with evil people who seek to make you act contrary to your conscience.
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #21 on: April 05, 2015, 04:36:34 PM »
Perhaps you could clarify what you meant by "Some Animals are more equal then others"

From your past comments on this subject I took it to mean that Gay folks had forced a wedding cake to be made, and this dude (a Christian) just lost in court to have his christian themed cakes made.  So you were saying that gay folks were more equal then Christians in this story.

Was that not what your OP meant?



The person who doesn't want to make "hateful" cakes is more equal than the person who doesn't want to make same-sex wedding cakes. Both treat all customers equally. (If you doubt this, just ask one of the hatebakers to make a same-sex wedding cake for a heterosexual.) Both are asserting a moral objection.

I should add, I'm not disagreeing with you about one person using a better argument than the other (I don't do this for anybody vs religious objection). But don't you agree that the difference is a fig leaf?
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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #22 on: April 05, 2015, 05:03:43 PM »
The person who doesn't want to make "hateful" cakes is more equal than the person who doesn't want to make same-sex wedding cakes. Both treat all customers equally. (If you doubt this, just ask one of the hatebakers to make a same-sex wedding cake for a heterosexual.) Both are asserting a moral objection.

I did edit that adjective as you requested.

I see where you are coming from a little clearer now.  I guess it comes down to the reality of you can't try to assert a moral objection to something that is protected by law.  I still see the distinction that the person refusing to make the cake is refusing to make that kind of cake for everyone.  Hence no discrimination.  The other baker is perfectly willing to make wedding cakes, just not for gay weddings.  So discrimination.  If we are going to have anti discrimination laws, this is how they are used.  I'm certain that there were a BUNCH of lunch counter owners in 1965 that asserted a moral objection to serving blacks.

What do you do?  There were some really vile things happening that led to these laws.  Any attempt to repeal them is almost certainly doomed.  So now what?

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Re: Denver bakery won't be forced to make "anti-gay" cakes
« Reply #23 on: April 05, 2015, 09:09:22 PM »

What do you do?  There were some really vile things happening that led to these laws.  Any attempt to repeal them is almost certainly doomed.  So now what?
I think it was government actions/laws that were the vile part of what happened before.  Govt turning the tables the other way isn't any better. 
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« Reply #24 on: April 05, 2015, 09:30:09 PM »
No argument there. My point was If we are going to fight in the culture wars, we need to do so based on the rights and privileges we actually have, not should have.

Denver Baker won her case because she proved that she treated all groups the same. The Christian Baker lost because she didn't. The difference  between supporting cakes and defaming cakes are what allowed that to happen. That's why the cases aren't equal, and conservatives that don't understand that distinction are why we keep losing battles.

Your position makes more sense now that you've elaborated.

These situations are the very opportunities that need to be highlighted and used to turn public opinion on this loss of rights. 
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