I'm sorry you were unable to process what I said. Please feel free to come back and think about it later. I think you'll eventually get it.
No, I get it. I really actually do get it. You do, too. You just will not let it go.
If I want my relationship validated by the State, and the State refuses due to the sex of my partner while validating others because of the sex of their partners, then the State is not providing equal services to me. Which is the problem.
Religion has no input into this conversation except for the fact that people like you find the State granting LBGT equal marriage rights to be offensive.
It's not the Government forcing Christian values, it's the Christains using the force of the Government to uphold Christian values.