You can't out earn your own stupidity. (Universal you, not just Mike)
There is a regionally dependent minimum income to survive. That number is a LOT lower than most think it is. But mostly people just have a hard time figuring out how to live on less than they make.
The one wierd trick that actually works is to budget and reduce expenses to well below parity with salary.
There are lot of people who have never known hard times, who spend a lot of money on things they don't need.
Expensive cars. Tattoo's. Cigarettes. Beer. Night clubs. Restaurants. Clothes. Expensive cell phone plans. Then they suddenly can't make ends meet. They have grown up with the idea someone (Mom, Dad, the Gov, a credit card, etc) will always bail them out if they get in trouble.
I bought my property, raw land, when the interest was 14%. "Going out", was once every couple of weeks, to Skippers, for a two for one fish and chips for $ 1.99. I have never had a new car. But somehow there was always an extra $100 a month to go on the principal.
Constant complaints out there about how it takes two incomes to make ends meet, etc, and it ain't like the old days- people must have forgot about that 1000 sq ft house and one car and no TV and Mom at home- now they want a 3000 ft home, two Lexus's in the drive, an RV and bass boat and all of a sudden there is no money left.
People don't know how to fix things anymore- every time there is a minor problem, they have to call a pro at $100 bucks an hour to change a leaky toilet valve, or nail up a porch railing.
I hired a kid (20), he was a sports player and the team wanted summer jobs. He could not get the nut loose on a piece of lawn equipment. My wife handed him a ratchet and a socket and started laughing at him ten minutes later when he could not get the part loose. There was this odd clicking sound and the ratchet just kept going around and around....hmmmm.
IMO, borrowing makes sense when there is a return on it it- borrow to increase your productivity.
Having parents who lived through the depression, and a frugal wife have been two great blessings.
And leave the waitress a decent tip.