Control the language, control the society.
Frame all adjustment problems in terms of "toxic" masculinity.
So now masculinity in general is toxic.
That characteristic which makes us climb mountains or drill through them, which develops new cultivation systems for the stay-at-homes, which is prepared to defend those stay-at-homes from being raped and their kitchens and root cellars picked clean of sustenance.
Yep. Toxic masculinity.
A man should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly.
Remember those "toxic" tasks? Paraquoted from Heinlein. Sounds like some of them might be good therapy.
One might argue with specific points, but the general theme is valid.
Masculinity isn't toxic. Attacking it is.
Terry, 230RN