( ^ Heh, heh. Maybe you should have started a new thread. A possibly hot-button, triggering, subject.)
Quite a while ago, after being disgusted with the abuses of most of the large charities, I adopted a policy of finding my own (local) needy folks and contributing to my church with instructions to the Deacon to advance that amount to the folks I had found on my own. This had the dual benefit of maintaining my anonymity and "making points" for the Church.
The one exception to this was at work where the United Fund campaign was guilting everybody into 100% departmental contributions, and I found among the listed United Fund charities one I felt was "reliable" so I could designate them as the recipient.
So I'd throw in a couple of bucks with that designation to satisfy the 100% departmental United Fund bullshit.
Nowadays I severely limit any contributions, especially to foreign charities. This, on the theory that they should solve their own damned problems; we have our own damned problems to worry about.
Gettin' a little tougher about charities in my old age and dotage, I am, I am.
Terry, 230RN
Correction: United Fund should be United Way.