Ohio State ATI has a great agronomy program. That being said, the last thing we need is more imports.
I don't understand why you haven't written that emotionally manipulative puta off. Wasn't she going to sue you for not sending her money?
Yes, she was.
I haven't written her off because I loved my late wife, and this was my wife's favorite grandchild (as well as the one we adopted.)
To fill out the history: The original plan was to bring her here to live with us for two years -- the last two years of high school -- because the kid had a toxic relationship with the birth mother (my wife's daughter/my step-daughter). But ... the only way we could bring her lere legally was to adopt her -- so we did. Once she was here, she did abysmally in our high school for one semester, then at the start of the next semester she claimed a nervous breakdown, said she had been bullied, and refused to go back.
So we scrambled, and I got her admitted to a very good parochial school. The assistant principal was a former Spanish teacher who was married to a Latino, and they assigned the kid to a Latino guidance counselor. She had all the support in the world ... and she lasted three days.
So we ended up sending her back to Sud America after all, where we put her in a parochial school and where she got good grades. She got into college, but just before college started my wife died unexpectedly. She did one year studying to become a lawyer, then (without consulting me) she decided she wanted to be a psychologist -- so she switched universities and changed her major.
Then she went on a binge of serial suicide attempts (all of which conveniently took place where there was someone to call an ambulance). She also started drinking and partying heavily, until she got herself kicked out of that university. She took a couple of years off (with more suicide attempts in the interim), then got herself into a third university and started to study agronomy -- which she says she loves, and wants to make it her career. But then she got herself VERY heavily involved in a radical student organization, her grades apparently suffered, and I don't know at this point if she just doesn't have the money to continue, or if she has failed out.
And then in late 2021 she announced that she thought it would be a good idea to move back to the U.S. (she has dual citizenship, by virtue of the adoption), live with me, and continue her studies here. She seems to think it will be easy for her (with very limited English) to find a job so she can "help" me while attending university.
She will turn 27 in two weeks. I do NOT need her physically in my life right now, so that's not going to happen. She has used up any money I had to help with her education -- all I can offer now is moral support, but that's not what she wants. She wants a meal ticket and a free ride.
