Certainly a lot of these EDC youtube videos can make a guy shake his head. I mean, some of them have you carrying around fishing line and hooks in the city.
That said, "normal" EDC depends on your situation. Mike's list (plus a wallet with cash and/or plastic) is reasonable for in the city. My normal EDC is gun, wallet, phone, knife, and light. I use a knife multiple times per day, and probably pull out the light around every other day for something or other.
If I go into EDC circumstances that require more than that, it's either part of my vehicle kit or else I will have a small ruck or similar (think first aid, fire, emergency overnight, etc.).
An interesting trend I've noticed with the high speed guys on the youtubz is EDC carrying a tourniquet everywhere, or even a "stop the bleed" kit in ankle holsters.
I kind of get that. I used to carry full trauma kits in the vehicles. Now I carry "extremes" kits. I treat either the booboo extreme with band aids, etc., or else the "keep someone from dying until real help arrives" extreme with tourniquets, compression bandages, and CPR knowledge. Everything in the middle (if in urban/suburban areas) is "call 911 and make the victim comfortable until the experts arrive" territory.
I'm actually taking a "stop the bleed" class next weekend as a refresher. When I was one of the rescue divers at the office, we went through annual quasi-EMT training, but I have gone way too long without a refresher, so am taking this class plus later in the year a medical refresher. Which I guess adds an important EDC item everyone should have: knowledge.