i think you over simplify it
And I think you talk out your ass.
catholic schools can pick and choose who they take public schools have to take anyone
Umm, no. The Chicago Catholic schools will take anyone who can pay (and it ain't a whole lot) but those within Chicago generally can't afford to pay both taxes and tuition. There have been several
Catholic schools close because they can't get enough kids to enroll.
catholic schools aren't saddled with a dozen gov "programs" they are legislated to provide
One benefit of NOT being a public school
kids in catholic schools know their parents laid out big bucks and there will be consequences if they waste dads cash
Maybe not big bucks (IIRC tuition is around $3k per year.) But again. Parental involvement.
catholic school kids have a higher percentage of 2 parent family's. that's a biggie
No, lots of one parent households send their kids to Catholic schools here in Chicago.
catholic school kids feel different/special in a positive way. they know the bar is higher and they are surrounded by other kids like them
No necessary . Not many nuns left teaching. Most are in administrative roles. And again IIRC, the majority of the kids aren't even Catholic.
catholic schools use user fees for lots of extracurricular activities
And so do the public schools. You ought see what we pay for Baseball and other sports. Football is about $1k. Hockey is about $5k
another biggie is kids in catholic schools know there are consequences
and don't overlook the religious component as a behavioral modifier
True.
sadly in some cases parents use catholic school as a substitute for involvement. lots of busy parents think that the school can compensate for their limited time with their kids. sometimes its a matter of convenience or careers that demand a lot of time. or guys who are overseas and are trying to give the parent at home a bit of help keeping the kids on track.
Ummm, again no. Parents that send their kids to a private school, be that Catholic or otherwise, generally are involved with their kids, and are striving to give them better then average to help them succeed in life. It's generally those that send their kids to public schools that simply use the school as a babysitting service. I knew several who sacrificed (and you don't want to know how much fundraising crapola I bought when I worked on the west side of Chicago. Not just from Hispanics but also African Americans seeking to reduce their tuition and other costs), to put their kids into catholic schools because the wanted their kids to do better than them.