Yea, likely will. Not thrilled with the prospect, but oh well. Now I have to sort through the various models. I'd ideally want something as streamlined as possible, and preferably compact but heavy. I want it to take up the least amount of space in my bag as possible, but weigh enough that the recoil is actually manageable. I'll look into shoulder holsters and the whatnot, probably make my own if necessary.
Why do you not like the 44mag? With sane loads, it's not as obnoxious as the 357mag with hot loads.
IMO, the 629 I posted at the beginning is about as close to ideal for your stated purpose. A 3" barrel, while kind of rare, may help in the toting dept, but my 4" rides nicely in a Threepersons style holster and would be concealable under a longish shirt or jacket. The RB grips can get pretty small if you go down to Magnas with a Tyler T-grip, but you have the flexibility to go to SB conversion grips for range use.
Recoil-wise, a good fitting grip (very important!) with 240s@1000fps will be comfortable to shoot. Out of the 629, I find 240s@800fps to be like 38special out of a k-frame and 250s@1200 to be more like your typical mid-range 357mag. Above that, recoil starts to get brisk (in the 629, still not bad in a Redhawk), but you wouldn't use those loads for anything but "real work".
This is a video of me shooting my 5.5" Redhawk at a pin shoot years ago. The Redhawk is a bit heavier than the 629. The load is a 240gr LSWC at 1000fps using Trail Boss powder, so it's just a warm 44special load. Maybe that'll give you an idea of recoil at the low to mid end of the scale...
As slow as I was, I turned in the fastest time at that point in the day (ended up being in the top 3rd of the field). The holster is a Threepersons style, so you can see how it rides.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yin6MjxNDFwChris