Was thinking about this thread while at work this morning. I noticed one thing...
But most of the anti-photographer posts in this discussion begin with the assumption that anyone who is taking pictures that might include children MUST be a pervert/pedophile and that the photographer MUST be accosted and asked to explain himself. As an amateur photographer, I think that's annoying. I'm "into" cameras and photography much as I am "into" guns and cars. I love cameras and taking pictures. If I'm out shooting and someone wants to come over and chat about which model of Canon I have, why I prefer Canon to Nikon, what lens I'm using, how do I handle depth of field, etc., I'm happy to spend some time (within reason) discussing photography.
Honestly. most folks seeing someone taking pictures with a nice rig would probably shrug and write that person off as a simple shutterbug: I know I would. I might approach that person to ask them questions about their set-up (used to do photography for a local biker rag), but they would be less likely to set off any kind of creep-o-meter.
Kinda like a local cop, who told me he really doesn't worry too much when he sees someone carrying a nice pistol in a holster, but WILL stop someone with a cheap/beat up pistol tucked into their pants...
Indeed. I'm happy to live in a neighborhood here in Montana where people are friendly, kids are polite and outgoing, and neighbors help neighbors. A good example is that since I'm missing my kids (whom I never get to see again thanks to the ex) my neighbor has me come over and chat over tea when her granddaughter is staying for the day. It cheers me up, but according to some folks I might be "grooming" her. Today's world is just... depressing.
Oh, believe me... I know THAT feeling quite well.
I'm the guy that would start a game of pool tag at the local Y with all the kids, pops a quarter into the gumball machine for the kid whose mother says she can't afford it, etc. When I first learned about common grooming behaviors, I felt kinda dirty, to tell the truth.
But look at it this way: this whole situation IS very similar to carrying a gun. Many assaults are carried out using a handgun, as are robberies and other crimes. Doesn't make you a criminal by association though...
Regardless, I think this thread has run it's course. My intention was to raise awareness of a problem. Those who wish to use the info, have it available.
Those who seem to have a personal axe to grind with me... don't really care.