I'm married, and I could see how that could be a real problem. It just seems like RevDisk is saying that people get married (or should get married) because they need help with housework and finances.
Call me a hopeless romantic, but I'd prefer to get married because I love a woman and want to spend the rest of my life with her.
My point was actually the opposite. *I* don't need help with housework or finances, but if I am expected to do an unfair percentage of the work... That's not going to be happy in the long run. MrsSmith's example is what I had in mind. Now, every person is different, so it can be tricky. I just prefer a relationship to have SOME kind of equality of responsibility, as one part of the whole thing. Whether it is one partner works a gig and the other handles most of the domestic. One person handles interior work (housecleaning or whatnot), the other exterior (leaves, mowing or whatnot). If one person is holding the lion's share of the burdens (of any/all types) and the other can do their part but chooses not to do so, that is not love. That is codependency at best.
Again, generally speaking. Good friend of mine broke both her arms during a motocross race. Her fiance (boyfriend at the time) did virtually everything for her during her recovery. Great guy. My friend did not milk the situation, she had no choice in the matter. Everyone had to yell at her to not try doing daily tasks with her feet.