the reason why I am stuck on the olympus is he wife was able to pick it up and use it. She felt it was user friendly and sh ewould have no problem pointing and clicking and getting a happy result.
And truth be told.. I liked the Live-view LCD. It will make the transition from cheap point and shoot to better images easier. That may be why the wife was drawn to the olympus too.
I am not sure why the Rebel seems to be everyones favorite entry level DSLR.
The Digital Rebel is everyone's favorite because it is hands down the best deal going. Canon cameras have always been known for being user-friendly and for producing top quality photographs. If your wife wants point-n-click, the Rebel offers that. In fact, it offers several modes of that, with the most satisfactory (
i.e. the "smartest") being the program mode. It also offers the option of shooting through the view finder or using the LCD. Being an old film camera type, I greatly prefer the view finder, and there is a lot to be said for being able to see EXACTLY what you're taking. That's the argument in favor of a DSLR. You see what you're taking, not an electronic translation of what the camera thinks the photo might look like if nothing goes wrong.
I also prefer manual focus over auto-focus. I guess that's why my ex-wife labeled me a control freak. When I take a picture, I want what
I choose as the subject to be in focus, not what some sensor buried in the lens thinks should be in focus.