See, I'm not a member of the "gay community."
In the sense that I've never enjoyed the 'gay stuff' which I'm 'supposed' to like because I happen to be... not completely straight.
I've met several other LGBT people at different events, attended classes with some and I've never really connected with the overall vibe. I've even once ended up at a "Gay Film Festival", looked at the posters, was intensely bored, and escaped.
The question is, of course, what we want to do.
I, personally, think society becoming more sexually libertine is a great thing - but then I derive my personal views on morality from the same place I derive my views on politics.