I tend to agree. I have nothing against the modern, Westernized Muslims, and I am well area of the golden age(s) of the Islamic world, but those are outliers from majority culture to scripture to politics and policy, Islam is fundamentally violent, oppressive, and repressive. It's more xenophobic than Christianity and more fixated on conquest and conversion than Judaism.
Sure one can argue that other Western(ish) faiths (as distinct from the East(er) Asian approach to religion) all are violent, oppressive, repressive and fixated on either conquest and conversion and any cost or retention and exclusion at any cost in the case of Judaism, but Islam sure does manage to wrap those things together in a pretty scary package that seems to lead to a mainstream that is unlikely to ever accept things like minimal violence or due process or maybe not killing people unless they've committed a particularly horrific crime, and by particularly horrific crime, I don't mean adultery. Especially without substantial legal process of some kind.