Eh. People thought allowing blacks, women, etc would end the military. Hasn't happened. Initially, there will be some major problems with some folks going way too far. Then it will mellow out to being no big deal except another boring EEO class.
Unless you were blind, if you served, you knew a couple gay soldiers. And like everyone else, if they did a decent enough job, you looked the other way because what the hell did you care? They do their job, it's not a big deal. It will be annoying when lazy blue falcons try to claim being oppression when told to do their friggin jobs. This tends to annoy the ever lovin' heck out of the non-white, female or gay soldiers who do their job more than it does white, male or straight soldiers. Both unfortunately learned the easiest way is to shut up instead of dealing with the problem directly. There's always going to be personality issues. When you have more than one individual in a group, you will have drama issues.
We just need to get over the initial hump, and then hammer lazy blue falcons for being lazy blue falcons regardless of their... whatever. It should be, you do the job, then fine. Elsewise, GTFO.