My current frustration is the lumping in of all sexual assaults together under the "rape" rubric and, on a larger scale, equivocating all "violence against women".
Except in the sense all forms are wrong and bad, the lack of precision in defining the distinctions among different "types" of violation makes any attempt to actually address the issues in an intelligent and effective manner impossible. Ironically(?) this is not a sex/gender specific problem.
For instance, stranger rape is different in process than acquaintance rape and thus the concrete steps to prevent/deter/avoid either, beyond gross generalities like "awareness", differ greatly.
Of course, if we started looking at details, we'd run into questions of systematic personal choices and responsibility, which is of course, exactly the same as "blaming the victim."