They've told you, "I think staring at my barista's chest is morally super-duper, but gay dudes shouldn't admire my hot bod"? They've consciously expressed this view?
Anyway, Ex-MA Hole has asked members of APS if they hold to such. Let's see how many do.
I do not.
Fistful, I have large breast and most of my friends (just friends) are male.
And over many years, I have learned one key fact. The pinnicle of the hetrosexual male pschy is BOOBS. Some mouthbreathers stare at nice (or large, or flat or lopsided or whatever, doesn't matter, if there is some form of boob, they look at it) in a drooly and disconcerning way. Others (in fact, most) are more gentlemanly about it. They try not to get caught. These men know women don't like getting the impression that they are a walking, talking pair of boobs.
But they still look. They don't even have to be intrested in the woman in question or even like the boobs, but they still make a quick glance at the chest.
The point I am making is no man can claim they don't take a peak at body features that they find attractive and the vast majority of men regularly (and sometimes it even seems unconcious) check the boobs, butt and face of the females in their vacinity.
So, no, IMHO, absolutly none of you can claim you don't check out those in this world you find attractive, where ever you happen to be, and if you get whiney about the few guys who might be assessing you, clearly, you are a hypocrite.
