Mine is okay, all they enforce are the rules on the more egregious behaviors: loud parties after 10PM, cars in front yards, that kind of thing. Mostly though they just administer the boulevard trees, common area lawns, and the snow removal service for the sidewalks. I go to the meetings so as to head off any little HOA-nazi wannabe's that want to enforce more rules.
So, that level of HOA is fine. The potential is always there to get a bunch of busy bodies that want to dictate to everybody else though so on balance I'd rather not have one.
I owned a house once in Mississippi under an HOA. They issued a mandate that everyone use only white lights for Christmas. I bought every colored light I could get my hands on and we had thousands of colored lights.
They have their places, they are not for everyone but they seem to work well most of the time when people want to live in a clean neighborhood in areas where zoning laws are lax.
I can't imagine that I would ever want to be under one but I could see it as reasonable for those who want it in the case of retired folks who just want quiet and no drama.
I live in one town and work in another. In the town where I work I keep an apartment for those days when I stay over in that town - which is not every night. There are definitely times I think how nice it is in the apartment. No chores, nothing to fix, it's a simple life. With the exception of mowing the lawn - which could be contracted out - a HOA could be the same. But, in the end, when I'm away from home all I want to do is get home.
That life is just not for me. I need something more challenging to get through life. Apartment life or HOA subdivision life reminds me of this - how many of you knew it was written by Carole King?
The local rock group down the street
Is trying hard to learn their song
Seranade the weekend squire, who just came out to mow his lawn
Just one nit-pick. Freely agreeing to live by certain rules is not giving up liberty. It is using one's liberty to make a free choice.
I said that in post 1. No one is forced into it; you get to choose.
But what happens when your life situation changes? When the economy is terrible and you want or need to grow your own food and you have the room? I know folks who have 5 acre "horse farms". They are allowed to have a horse or two but no other farm animal. IT may have seemed reasonable with their situation when they moved in. THen the market collapses, they can't sell their house and they want to raise some chickens or ducks. On 5 acres they can do it without bothering a neighbor. So, you're right that they get the choice going in but it's, in my mind, a stupid choice because you may have to live with it for 30 years.