[Insert stock protestations of tolerance, inoffensiveness, etc. that you find most palliative.]
a). why do gay males accept hetero females into their culture?
Well, so many highly visible gay males take their cues from women. Flamboyant gay male culture seems to be parasitic or derivative of aspects of feminine culture and would not exist without it.
Also, I think some hetero women like hte idea of males they can socialize/girl talk (or speak of what has become characherized as feminine) with and be less worried if every guy they meet wants to sleep wiht them.
b) why are some, if not most, hetero guys afraid to confront their own sexuality?
I'm sure some do. Getting at the root of it is, I am sure, a very individualized affair.
I suspect that the question has a faulty premise: that a disgust/dislike/aversion to things homosexual is a sign of insecuirty or inward turmoil. Also, in cases where there is some sort of "fear" it might be less a question of, "Am I gay?" and more a "Holy cow, I'm all wound around the axle WRT sex in general!"
Alomst ALL societies* have had a pretty hard line
vis a vis homosexuality. There has been some bit of work trying to determine if
this is a cultural artifact or a genetic survival trait (as opposed to inborn,
a good discussion of which can be found here). Now, wouldn't that be a hoot? Two groups squaring off with each other & claiming victim status. It would be almost as good as the enviro-nut vs indian kerfluffle when it was ruled the indians could hunt whales, again...with motorboats and Barret .50cal rifles.
) why are "Lebanese women" hostile toward seemingly everyone?
Most I have met have been the, "I want to live my life with my partner" lebanese rather than the man-hating-bull-dyke kind. I think that those that frequent lebanese bars or otherwise congregate togehter (in large groups) are much more into "being gay" than the lebanese couple that buys a house in the burbs, has two dogs, and is worried about the mortgage, car payment, and if hte new family across the street will mow their yard & keep up the neighborhood standards.
Also, a lot of it may be location, location, location. A far-left locality with feminist reading rooms and the like, will harbor much more hostility toward men and masculinity.
d) why have the leaders of the gay rights movement not learned to keep the leather-bound crowd away from the cameras?
Because, at its foundation, a lot of the "Hey, I'm GAY!" homosexuals** are more about disparaging the norms and standards of the majority than about applied sexuality.
If gays can't march down Main Street in buttless chaps, the terrorists will have won! (A distillation of an argument made by Pim Fortuyn, Dutch politician, promoter of homosexuality, and possible pedophile, when he spoke on hte effects of muslim immigration into the Netherlands. He was later killed by a leftist dutchman for his ideas.)
* "Almost ALL" is used because we
may find one where openly practicing gay couples were accepted in polite society without remark, penalty, etc. Even Greek civ, normally considered "gay friendly" in the currnet misconception was only partially so. In the mentor/pupil relationship it was considered very bad form to "get jiggy with it." Also, the male on the receiving end was viewed with scorn and derision as taking the part of the female.
** As opposed to the homosexuals who seem to be more about living their life, like the rest of humanity, with their sexuality as
part of their beings rather than the reason for thier existance.
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