Landshark, I guess we see things differently because you think of the "far-right" as being extreme, whereas I think of them as being quite sensible. While I'm sure I could think of a few right-wingers that are extreme, the far-right is generally quite bland in terms of ideology.
If you can perceive of the pro-abortion point of view as moderate, then we will never see things the same way. In my view, allowing abortion even in cases of rape or incest is quite extreme. That's just the difference between our ways of thinking, I suppose.