Sound carries a long way, especially over water.
The reality is that, in many situations, the ear is attuned to hear sound incursions -- or abrupt differences, if you will -- and will alert your brain accordingly.
This goes back to the idea of the lighthouse keeper who has slept with a foghorn going off every two minutes for years. One night, it doesn't and he wakes up thinking, "what was that?"
I'll tune out heavy traffic right outside my house if it is constant. I can hear a pin drop in silence. It's how we're designed.
I can certainly see where being a couple of miles from anything would open my ears to sounds of civilization, like TRAFFIC.
Cheers!