One of the first books my father had me read when I was heading into junior high was Dale Carnegie's "How to Win Friends and Influence People." For its time, it was a useful book.
The techniques are centuries-old, but still hold true.
In online forums like APS, though, I'm not sure.
In another thread, I made comments that were intended to delve deeper into the subject, as well as into the problems the original poster is experiencing.
Instead, it would appear that I riled some feathers, including those of one of our most respected forum members.
Forums have smilies so that posters can try to indicate the intent of their posts.
But, without really knowing the poster personally, and without being able to hear or speak with inflections of voice, establish eye contact, or view or use body language, things still get lost in the translation.
Somewhere out there must be an internet version of the Carnegie course.
Meanwhile, though, I'd just like to apologize to The Rabbi and any others who have been following that thread. It wasn't my intention to downplay anyone's experiences with anxiety, or elevate myself to some special "victim" status.
In a few days, I expect that emotions will cool down, and then perhaps we can start a thread where those willing to do so can describe their experiences with anxiety and panic attacks.
In the meantime, if someone has an idea on how to make internet conversations more clear and personal, have at it.
