All earbuds go in the ear. Do you want something that hangs on the ear or over the head?
I mean I want something shaped like this:
Or like this:
But not like this (goes in like ear plugs):
Can you say "situational awareness"?
Can you say, "fistful already wears earbuds, he just wants more practical ones, so your kvetching is useless?"
Wirey earbuds actually encourage me to keep my head down, and facing front, so wireless will probably help with SA, anyhow.