Well, as you guys asked, and i promised, i come bearing photos and stories of The Big Night.
So, we met at a friend's house where the limo was to pick us up. she arrived, looking like a million dollars. after introductions and such, it was corsage time:
and she also gave me a white rose boutonniere.[sp?]
so we all took some group photos and such, and headed out to the limo for a final photo session:[my favorite picture!]
we arrived at the prom, talked, BS'ed,[and i found out that she reads Bukowski AND knows my favorite poem of his! i nearly *expletive deleted*it when i heard that!] and mingled with others until the doors opened to the main dinner and dance room. She and I found our table, and discussed some good conversational material during the dinner. pleasant and enjoyable, even though the music was too damn loud. it's not very romantic when you have to yell all the time.
ooh, dinner's done... now dancing. crap. i can't do any kind of dance without looking like an idiot, and i don't think it helped that it was some sort of hip-hop rap stuff that was being "danced" to. she had a good laugh at my expense [which i don't mind at all, hey, they got a good laugh out of it] watching my attempts at "moving with the music". she helped me along, and i started getting the hang of it... sortakinda. we played a bastardized version of blackjack with a bunch of unsorted cards [there were 7 aces for all i knew]...mingled with the people...all that. we left to go back home, then to our school to get picked up.
we stood outside in the cool night air, me personally enjoying the quiet. my arm was around her, making me nice and warm [kinda chilly outside], and i was just about on the top of the world. Just about.
but i happened to be standing on a cliff.
i heard the words, "So, what were you wanting to get out of this relationship?". sent up a red flag - why's she asking this? i probably said something like "whatever happens of it" [which really was a lie, i guess]
"because i really just see you as a great friend..."
errrr..."I actually just recently got out of a really horrible relationship, and i'm really turned off to the whole thing now"
a little side note, the other three of my possible close relationships with girls failed..."And i don't want a relationship for a long time"
well, at least i have a good friend from this - "I mean a really long time..."
ooh, salt in the wound... heard that the first time...I don't really know what she said or I said after that. it was all just a blur, then and now...
Didn't end badly, which i am grateful for, and i do have a new very levelheaded friend, but now i'm batting zero out of four.
well, there's the story. it's late, but i think i covered all the bases, all the important stuff.
'night
~TMM