Well, the main problem I have with feminism is that both men and women are treated differently based on their gender. Men and women are not the same. Sorry, but it's the truth. That statement is backed up by a lot of research showing that there are differences in cognition between men and women. Both sexes perceive and interpret information differently.
This means that a typical man is naturally inclined to do certain things, and that women are naturally inclined to do certain things. This doesn't mean that one sex is inferior, nor is it sexist.
I'd rather have a man build a deck for me, but would have no problem with a woman doing it, either. I'd rather talk to a woman about a personal problem, as women are more emotional, and are thus more sensitive, compassionate, and caring.
I have no problem with either sex. I just have a problem with people playing the victim when nothing is really fair for anyone. If you have a legitimate reason for complaining, more power to you.