A great but old analysis of Fermi's Paradox:
http://hanson.gmu.edu/greatfilter.htmlWhile there might be a great filter that limits our future capabilities, I think there are plenty of other explanations, so I'm not particularly worried.
A few reasons why life may exist but we haven't detected it:
- It's not very advanced. Other civilizations at our level couldn't detect us without being very lucky or very close to us.
- The kind of engineering projects advanced civilizations engage in may look like natural phenomena.
- Even for an advanced civilization, in another galaxy and certainly in a galaxy beyond the local group, it would take a lot of energy and maybe logistics to set up omnidirectional communication... and that could just as easily attract unwanted attention from an equivalent or even more advanced competing civilization.
- Maybe they've discovered FTL communication and don't even bother with light or sublight comm anymore because the kind of civilizations who use those methods are uninteresting and very far from achieving technological parity: not interesting and not a threat.
- Advanced civilizations might use the communication media we do, but they may not want to talk to us, even though they're perfectly capable.
- Maybe we're a colony of theirs they seeded with bacterial life, possibly including teraforming, and are leaving us alone on purpose.
- Maybe we're in a pocket universe that some advanced civ designed as an experiment, and they leave everything pretty much pristine. Note that this scenario would be impossible to distinguish at our current level of tech from any arbitrary religion. However, such life would not be Gods; they would be subject to any physics constraints that exist in the parent universe.
- The idea that advanced civilizations desire explosive growth could be false. Perhaps they find other ways to deal with their growing populations that don't include taking over their existing galaxy/universe; for instance, assuming it's possible, perhaps they would rather create pocket universes and inhabit those, leaving the parent universe nearly pristine. Maybe they're happy with zero population growth so they don't need more real estate of any kind, and their energy harvesting method is not readily observable to us. Maybe they have AIs, nanotech robots, etc. doing most of their physics research and exploration and chores for them; then they wouldn't need large populations for anything.