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That's why I said in Reply # 243:
"I trust she has at least some of this in writing. There's nothing like keeping a "Pearl Harbor File." Or having witnesses to the objections.
I still, personally, lay 99 point four more nines percent of the blame on the party who cocked the gun, allowed it to be pointed at a person, and pulled the trigger.
I suspect that ammunition can actually tiptoe around, hiding in small dark places, until it finds a suitable chamber to slip into and rest until awakened.
And I've often said you never point a gun anywhere you can't fix the hole."
Terry, 230RN